**Distribute the invitation to 2 families you recognize but do not know really well in our parish by March 31.

**Pay the Retreat Fee of $30 if you haven't already; it is now past due.

**Mark your calendar: you promised to volunteer for the Retreat!
*****Mary and Kelly will contact you closer to the date to remind you what role you volunteered. Right now, you can mark your calendar to come on April 13 from 9:30-2:30 (although your hours will probably be shorter).

**Shop for outfit: see list here

1. JCPenney
2. Dillard's
3. Burlington
4. Once Upon a Child website and Facebook page
5. David's Bridal - You must also purchase a shrug, jacket, or sweater if you purchase any of these sleeveless dresses!
6. Alterations by Leslie's Facebook page

**NEWSFLASH: Payless Shoes is going out of business -- get there now!!

**Shop for gifts
LOCAL
St. Martin de Porres
St. Lucie
Holy Land Art Company
ONLINE
Autom: Reconciliation and Communion
The Catholic Company: Reconciliation and Communion
Catholic Gifts and More: Reconciliation and Communion
Sacred Heart Toys: Reconciliation and Communion

Moses' tabernacle: https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/The-Tabernacle

Moses' ark: https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Ark-Of-The-Covenant

Scanned pages from The New Saint Joseph First Communion Catechism: ​file:///C:/Users/macevedo/Downloads/The%20New%20Saint%20Joseph%20First%20Com%20-%20Kelley,%20Bennet,%20C.P._5807.pdf

The meaning of the word host: https://aleteia.org/2016/05/22/why-is-the-eucharist-called-a-host/

Types of unleavened bread slideshow: https://recipes.howstuffworks.com/10-unleavened-breads.htm

The Real Presence, especially John 6:35-69, but read the full context: http://www.usccb.org/bible/john/6

Meaning of receive: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/receive

Meaning of take: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/take

Chewing and even "gnawing" the Host: https://www.catholiceducation.org/en/controversy/protestant-objections/the-eucharist-is-the-real-presence-biblical.html and https://www.patheos.com/blogs/prayergardens/2015/08/devouring-christ/

Attacks on our Catholic belief in the Real Presence: https://www.thecatholicthing.org/2011/08/06/the-eucharist-a-cannibalism/

Do not share Communion with your children: http://www.dailycatholic.org/spioxbio.htm

Mortal sin: ​http://www.saintaquinas.com/mortal_sin.html

IMPORTANT DATES

• Mandatory meetings for adults: Parents or grandparents or godparents must attend a meeting in January and a meeting in February. Meetings happen during class times (5:15-6:30). 
  • Choose one: January 29, 30, or 31
  • Choose one: February 26, 27, or 28

**Your child cannot be absent during the entire month of April 2019.**

• Retreat: Saturday, April 13, 2019, from 10-2PM in the Parish Hall
  • We need adult volunteers - please sign up and help!
• First Reconciliation: 5:15-6:30 in the main church on Tuesday, April 23; Wednesday, April 24; and Thursday, April 25, 2019 (during their normal class time)
  • Parents, siblings, grandparents, and godparents are all invited to attend.
  • If your child is absent this week, he or she will not be able to receive First Holy Communion with the group! 
• First Holy Communion Mass: Sunday, May 5, 2019, at 12:00 noon.
  • Children need to meet in the Parish Hall dressed and ready to go at 11:30am.
• Certificate of Sacrament: distributed in a special ceremony on the last day of class (May 7,8,9)
  • Parents, siblings, grandparents, and godparents are all invited to attend.

IMPORTANT REQUIREMENTS
$30 Retreat Fee per First Communicant is due no later than February 26/27/28, 2019
We can only accept check or cash in the exact amount.

The proper dress code for boys:

1. Suit: navy blue or black
2. Shirt: white button down
3. Tie: white necktie (do not purchase---this is a gift from the parish)
4. Socks: navy blue or black, to match suit pants
5. Shoes: black dress shoes, either lace-up or slip-on (no loafers, no sneakers (even if they are black), no flip-flops/slides, no sandals, etc.)

The proper dress code for girls:

1. Dress: the white Communion dress must have sleeves. If you absolutely must buy a sleeveless dress, then you must also buy a white cover up, either a jacket or shrug, that must be worn while in the church. A shawl is not a good idea at this age because it will most likely slip off and bare the shoulders in church.
2. Veil: white Communion veil (do not purchase---this is a gift from the parish)
3. Socks: white socks or white tights/stockings
4. Shoes: White dress shoes, which should be flat or 1” heel maximum. For safety purposes, backless shoes and sandals are not permitted. Closed toe dress shoes (pumps) are the safest as the First Communicants will be walking around on the slick marble sanctuary floor.

PARENTS SHOULD DO THIS OFTEN, ESPECIALLY THROUGHOUT THE 2018-2019 YEAR

• Go to Mass.
  • Times are listed on the home page of our website and on the front page of our bulletin.
  • Place an envelope into the collection basket or use the electronic Faith Direct system. These methods help us track attendance/participation. Donating loose money is unidentified and therefore attendance is not tracked.
  • Make sure your child doesn't forget to have a priest or deacon sign the Mass Signature Card. This also helps us track attendance/participation.
• Go to confession so you can be a good example for your child.
  • Confession at Holy Family is every Saturday from 2:45-3:45. Search the websites of other parishes in our area if that day and time are inconvenient for you.
• Bring your child with you so that he or she can see what the sacrament "looks like."
  • During the time you are in the confessional, your child will wait outside. 
  • Ask him or her to pray for you because you want to become a better person, and their prayers help you do that. Be honest and tell them that everyone has challenges in their lives ("a cross to bear") -- so do you, and prayers for another person really help. Tell your child that you pray for him or her, and make sure you do it
• Linger after Mass and take your child into the confessional. Keep the door open while you are in there as a family. Talk about what it looks like, who sits where, what happens, and so on. Remember you are still in the sanctuary, so voices and actions should be controlled and respectful. If any accidents happen, please let me know so I can take care of it.